{"id":570,"date":"2024-04-23T18:29:10","date_gmt":"2024-04-23T18:29:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/ccima.ca?p=570"},"modified":"2024-05-11T19:44:06","modified_gmt":"2024-05-11T19:44:06","slug":"570","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/ccima.ca\/fr\/570\/","title":{"rendered":"Conseils aux intervenants aupr\u00e8s des proches d&rsquo;un \u00eatre disparu"},"content":{"rendered":"<ul>\n<li>E\u0301couter est plus important que de parler. Posez des questions ge\u0301ne\u0301rales pour encourager les proches a\u0300 s&rsquo;exprimer librement, ce qu&rsquo;ils feront au niveau auquel ils se sentent a\u0300 l&rsquo;aise. Cela leur fait du bien de parler de ce qu&rsquo;ils ont ressenti. Toutefois, on ne peut pas les forcer; vous devez donc engager le dialogue a\u0300 leur niveau et e\u0301valuer la conversation en fonction de ce niveau d&rsquo;e\u0301change.<\/li>\n<li>Exprimez vos sentiments avec authenticite\u0301 \u2013 n&rsquo;essayez pas d&rsquo;exprimer des sentiments que vous n&rsquo;e\u0301prouvez pas. Respectez leurs sentiments et compatissez en leur permettant de les exprimer. Ne dites rien qui pourrait bloquer l&rsquo;expression de leurs sentiments.<\/li>\n<li>Comprenez que l&rsquo;expression de ce qu&rsquo;ils ont ve\u0301cu est pluto\u0302t impre\u0301visible, qu&rsquo;ils ne mai\u0302trisent pas leurs e\u0301motions et qu&rsquo;ils sont sous l&rsquo;effet d&rsquo;un stress profond. Cela peut se traduire par des e\u0301tats d&rsquo;a\u0302me changeants ou par des comportements bizarres et inattendus \u2013 ils peuvent s&rsquo;ave\u0301rer insolents ou impertinents. Ne vous sentez pas personnellement vise\u0301 et laissez passer. Il arrive que les e\u0301motions qu&rsquo;ils ressentent les de\u0301passent sans qu&rsquo;ils puissent les contro\u0302ler ou les exprimer convenablement.<\/li>\n<li>Comprenez que la plupart des gens ont besoin de vivre au jour le jour et adaptez-y vos plans.<\/li>\n<li>Offrez-leur de l&rsquo;aide pratique dont ils ont besoin, selon vos observations : proposez-leur de pre\u0301parer leurs repas, de faire leurs courses, de magasiner pour eux, etc.<\/li>\n<li>Essayez de leur permettre de vivre le plus normalement possible. N&rsquo;oubliez pas qu&rsquo;en subissant ce qu&rsquo;ils vivent actuellement, ils ont e\u0301galement besoin de vivre aussi normalement que possible.<\/li>\n<li>E\u0301vitez de leur de\u0301biter des de\u0301clarations pseudo-philosophiques telles que: \u00abQuelque chose de bien sortira de cette trage\u0301die\u00bb ou \u00abDieu ne nous e\u0301prouve pas au dela\u0300 de nos limites\u00bb. Ces genres de cliche\u0301s, me\u0302me avec les meilleures intentions, peuvent perturber le proche d&rsquo;une victime.<\/li>\n<li>Advenant que vous soyez afflige\u0301 par la disparition d&rsquo;un e\u0302tre cher, en tant qu&rsquo;intervenant, il est de mise que vous laissiez percevoir votre douleur. Si vous pensez que vos e\u0301motions sont trop vives ou intenses, vous pourriez en parler pre\u0301alablement a\u0300 quelqu&rsquo;un en mesure de vous aider a\u0300 exprimer vos sentiments et de vous soutenir pour e\u0301viter d&rsquo;accabler votre interlocuteur. L&rsquo;e\u0301quilibre est de\u0301licat a\u0300 maintenir.<\/li>\n<li>Parlez de l&rsquo;e\u0302tre cher disparu, de ce que vous aimez a\u0300 son sujet, ainsi que des moments que vous avez partage\u0301s et qui demeurent grave\u0301s dans votre me\u0301moire.<\/li>\n<li>Il est normal que l&rsquo;interlocuteur que vous aimez \u00abne veuille rien savoir\u00bb ou \u00abse distance\u00bb. Il se sent en \u00abterrain inconnu\u00bb mais il a toujours un e\u0301norme besoin de votre soutien. NE VOUS SENTEZ PAS PERSONNELLEMENT VISE\u0301. Demeurez en contact par te\u0301le\u0301phone, courriel, etc.<\/li>\n<li>La nature humaine nous pousse a\u0300 regarder la situation d&rsquo;une autre personne et a\u0300 penser que nous saurions ce que nous aurions fait. Essayez d&rsquo;e\u0301viter de penser ainsi parce qu&rsquo;il s&rsquo;agit d&rsquo;un genre de jugement qui de\u0301tourne votre attention et vous empe\u0302che de soutenir l&rsquo;e\u0302tre cher qui souffre. Avant d&rsquo;avoir marche\u0301 dans ses souliers, nous ne savons vraiment pas ce que nous aurions fait et ce que nous n&rsquo;aurions pas fait.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><em>Cindy S. a e\u0301crit ce texte en mai 2012. Les conseils de Cindy sont fonde\u0301s sur ses constatations et sur son ve\u0301cu a\u0300 la fois comme intervenante de soutien et comme membre d&rsquo;une famille ayant subi la disparition d&rsquo;un proche adulte.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>E\u0301couter est plus important que de parler. 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